[NickH]

Originally Posted by Hector M.

Agreed. We've hit a limitation. We've covered just about everything that needed covering.

...but, what haven't we covered? What is still up for debate? What can we find out, or experiment with? There's always something more to push forward with.

For example, it can be said that people are who they are, and that one person cannot fully have the talents others do. But I say "What if...". What IF a person can dig through their being, and literally "activate" that switch they believed didn't exist. We are advised to refer to negativity as "it doesn't exist", so that positivity can flow. We can choose to make things existent. If so, why not consider the fact that ALL of us have skills in us existent, and that they are merely hidden within all of us?

Great question, from my limited experience in my life, Im going to use my example of what I know. I go clubbing every week, my buddy is a natural, he leaves the clubs with 2-3 numbers every time we go, hes in a little "relationship" right now, but he usually kiss closes as well. Myself, I am not at that level. Now I will say that, that is his "talent", I dont possess that talent currently, but since the new year, I have been pushing my boundaries and hopefully achieve what he is achieving. I have seen him go from a wall flower to the natural that he is. It started with not giving a fuck and just doing it. I had a problem with that because I am a type b personality, shy kid all of my life and he was opposite, so his transition is a lot easier than mine. When I am out, I constantly battle my inner self and literally force myself to do things I am not necessarily comfortable with. But with that experience comes confidence, after a couple approaches and rejections, I got through and it just took that one success for my confidence to build. Granted it was just dancing, I felt the attraction, the physical cues were there. That 5 minute or so span ignites that switch for the rest of the night, I literally go from, damn Im getting rejected, to I can do this, keep the ball rolling. And I rolled that damn ball all night. So yes, I think that switch can be turned on. Ive been clubbing every weekend since the new year and I feel I am getting better and better each week. I will report back friday because I am going out tomorrow night.